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Author’s Note:

I am aware of how rape can be a traumatizing experience for anyone concerned, but it was different for me and hence I felt the need to share my story. I cannot say the rape was a pleasant experience, as I myself didn’t know what to think of it. But it was the only time I had ever climaxed, and judging by that, it was the most memorable sexual encounter I ever had.

But, this in no way is reflective of all girls’ opinions who have been raped. My heart and soul go out to them. And just to reiterate, I do not wish to find myself in that situation ever again.

 

Note - Content of the story contains some explanation of sexual moves and if you are expecting some news related to rape than do not continue as its just a confession by the girl .

 

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“When being raped, she shouldn’t fight back. She should just be silent and allow the rape. Then they’d have dropped her off after ‘doing her’, and only hit the boy,” he said.

I try hard to not follow rape stories. I try everyday and fail every second because rape happens every third second in this country. There’s always a cringing fear that it’s soon coming to you, considering the ridiculous sex ratio. I’m scared it’ll come to me. Again. There’s no bigger fear than to expect a gruesome incident that you’ve experienced in this lifetime to happen to you yet again. This does not mean I wish it would happen to anyone else in this world. But I’m selfish and I sometimes feel like carrying a placard around that’ll say, “I’m done, it’s done.” May be that will tingle some sort of emotions in these inhuman bastards.

But then I remember, they have no emotions. They are not human. They just want to assert the power they think they have over you. They are devils born on this land in the name of God to create vile, horrendous bitterness for people on earth. They rape a girl, bite her all over, beat her up; if that’s not satisfying enough, they shove a rod into her vagina and if that is also not enough, they shove their hand into her and pull out her intestines. She cries, she begs, for no fault of hers, she shakes with fear and cries a little more, but they go into her and out till she bleeds to death.

And what do they say to that?

“She had to learn a lesson.”

This did not happen to me, I have still ‘struggled’ to survive. To be honest, I didn’t think Jyoti was justified to get all the attention for being a rape victim. I had been there too! But then… I heard her story. I still can’t get over the fact that she was so strong to have survived after ALL OF THAT. My first thought was “At least I had it easier.”

Why did she go through all this?

Because she resisted and she learnt a lesson. And today, she is being given a death sentence after death, that too by her rapists. Why Jyoti? Why did you resist? Why didn’t you gladly have sex with the handsome looking motherfu**ers?

But I expect this to happen to me every second of the day. I have a phobia. So I keep planning. What will my reaction be if this happens to me again? Should I carry a pepper spray? But pepper spray works on humans, I’m not sure about its application here. And recently, the answer came to me directly.

I will lay there naked this time and not resist because I now know the secret to “not getting killed” after getting raped.

Yes I’m one of them, and my only fault is that I survived. To die a little every single day. But I always tell myself that mine was an ‘easier rape’. It hurts but does not hurt that much. It could’ve been much worse, I tell myself every day. This is why I’m probably one of the few rape victims who’s talking about it so openly. But I don’t know why we don’t. I don’t know why people say, “We shouldn’t talk about rape in India.” I don’t care what kind of society this is! I am suffering and I am not allowed to get help. No- not even from my mother! Do I lose the right to be treated like a human being because a monster raped me?

But if I raise my voice against it anyway, it provokes mentally disabled men like Mukesh Singh to find a hole, and find darkness at the the end of the tunnel for their prey?

I’ve spent the last two years trying to read about the mental state of these a**holes and the more I read, the lesser I feel for my rape. My rape, not my rapist. Why? Because I feel bad, I feel sorry for the men who can never feel contentment in their life. My rapist is still a megalomaniac prick inside his brainless head, but I have fought against my demons and my depression and I have become so much stronger. But those rapists are and will always be strays on the streets hunting for some treat to mitigate their horrid hunger every day.

I’m alive today because my rapist didn’t kill me- because I was his friend and not because I didn’t resist. I did. With all the life in me, I resisted. I remember the anxiety when I was at his place and he started touching me at all the awkward places. I wasn’t drunk. He was. Trying to act decent, he first asked me if I’d sleep with him. I said a plain No. I wasn’t into him. In my head, I was making plans to leave but his face looked like a criminal’s face already.

I texted my best friend to call so that I could’ve received it and said there was an emergency. Till then, I hadn’t realised that he was one of those. Mental retards. My friend was probably asleep and it was probably my bad day.

I should’ve realised when he chose to take me for coffee to his place before he dropped me home that night. I couldn’t have gone home alone so late at night, especially in the “rape capital”. But I didn’t know something worse was waiting for me at his place. When I said No to sleeping with him, he lost it. It happens with these mindless, a**-holic fu**s. When they are drooling and the treat is right in front of them, they can go to any extent to grab it. Same happened with me.

When I said No, he pounced at me to kiss me forcefully. You obviously don’t kiss beasts so it was more like him biting on to my lips. When I shrug him off, he got angry. He came towards me with even greater force. Harsher this time. He was pressing his body against mine like he hadn’t ever seen a moving woman before. I was soon tired of putting up a fight. The more I fought, the more it physically hurt. In the end, I was as good as a dead body. Resisting didn’t help and when I noticed it turned him into an animal, I stopped resisting. But it made things worse, I just lay there. Resisting didn’t help but neither did ‘not resisting’. He did me from behind, from the front and from everywhere it was possible to sneak his little thing in any possible hole in my body. He was treating my body like a toy, turning me around, throwing me here and there. He was really enjoying it. I could see it on his face. I was only crying, I was too numb to react.

I bled from almost everywhere. You know how rape victims look like in images, that’s exactly how I looked. But, I survived. He didn’t kill me.

Thank you friend, for that! For not killing me wholly and just killing my soul. But see Jyoti, I survived. For not being as brave and as courageous as you were, for not talking when I needed to, for not standing up and making sure that brutality pays. For not taking his name and getting nightmares everyday even at the thought of getting legal help.

I’m the coward you were not and guess what? I get to live to see these monsters blame us. I have to live to see them talk while I sit at home losing my mind to depression. That’s a death sentence for me as it is.

And you, your culprit wants to grant you a death sentence after death. This is the world we live in Jyoti, this is how we pay for being a part of this society.

Author’s note:

I’m a rape victim but I’m not Jyoti. I’m just not that brave Jyoti and I’m so sorry for that. Had I spoken out loud before, you’d probably be living today. I’m sorry.

 

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On Saturday, Jayveer Singh, Assistant Sub-Inspector, Delhi Police was taken into custody for 14 days on the charges of rape of a lady of 23. Jayveer, who is 50 years old, was posted in West Delhi’s Punjabi Bagh Police Station.

This unpleasant incident happened on the night of Thursday, when the ASI drank a lot and raped the lady at gunpoint. The CCTV cameras have recorded all that has happened and Delhi Police is now screening the tapes for their legitimacy, however the medically it has been proven that the lady has been raped.

As per the reports on Focus news, Jayveer used to call the lady as daughter so the victim said that she was not able to understand what is happening and lost her sanity when Jayveer raped her.

The footage of the CCTV camera is very important proof, and Delhi Police is checking the legitimacy of the footage, till then Jayveer is in the custody for 14 days.

 

Aren’t such types of incidents create a wrong example for the society and spoil the future generation? What are your views on the incidents? Share your opinion in the comments section below.

How absurd it is that we find it hard to accept rape victims as a part of so called society but it is quite easy to be sympathetic to the rapists .How ironical is that we want to give rapists a chance to improve themselves and their mentality but what about our mentality? Why is it so hard to give a rape victim a chance to fit in the social norms? If people treat rapists badly they lack “humanity” but what when we pass unbearable comments on the rape victims? Is it not lack of so called “humanity”? This is not something the society has to be blamed for because society thinks after all what you think, what I think, what we think. So ultimately we are the one to be blamed. When it comes to our life we want freedom to take our decisions, we don’t want to follow someone or do something because the other person does that, in short we want to do what we feel like, but why not so in initiating a change? Why do we prefer to wait for someone else to start and then follow when it comes to defying illogical social norms set up? It is not necessary that every other person thinks the way you think, maybe the change you want is never thought up so it is your duty to start up .sometimes we push ourselves away from starting because we feel we may be wrong but this can be thought in the other way too that maybe we are right.

There is nothing in this world that is perfectly right or perfectly wrong; it is the situation that makes something right or wrong so there is no harm in starting up something if you feel like it is correct. Being a girl should not stop you from thinking off the line. Sometimes what we feel is what the world feels but people are hesitant to defy the society especially girls but remember society is created by people like you. Going against the well laid path is not something abnormal or a sign of being insane it is just a way of demanding a change. People will agree or disagree with you only if you raise your voice as silence cannot be quoted. The double standards prevailing at present have made it tough for rape victims to survive in the world. They are thought of something as extreme cases and if they wish to fight against the injustice they are suppressed but when it comes to discussions we will even waste thousands of hours agreeing to the fact that it needs a change. It would be a lot better if we utilize the time wasted in discussions to support them and treat them as normal beings. The nirbhaya case of Delhi is an absolute real example of how hypocritical the society we live in is. The statement of the rapist says it in all. Instead of accepting what he did was wrong he found it quite easy to blame it on the girl. Ok we can say that he was uneducated so maybe he had such mentality but what about the educated individuals that find it the mistake of rape victims than the rapists? It is not all about being educated or having degrees it’s about moral education, the education that is not found in books.

Moreover the way a child is brought up is also of extreme importance. Generally what happens is we teach girls to follow certain norms like “be careful of how you speak in public”, “dress up properly”, “don’t laugh too much” and so on but what about what a guy learns up as he grows up? We are of course least interested in that but unfortunately it is the thing that matters most. If a boy was taught to respect girls, to consider them as counterparts rather than mere things or inferior it would have been no difficult to control up the rate of rapes being committed. As it is said that “no one is born a criminal, it is the situation what makes them” so it is extremely important to pay as much attention to boys as to girls. And the most important thing; remember that it is not the society that makes us rather it’s the other way round. Being a girl does not means that you have to be delicate and soft cornered and full of kindness even for those who don’t deserve that, you have a right to be practical yet emotional, kind yet strong, selfless yet self centered.

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We come across a number of rape cases but this case is little different. In this, two people made a lame excuse of thirst. They asked for water and as the lady was about to give it, they entered her home, locked the door, thrashed and molested her. But this does not end here. They also looted cash worth Rs. 10 lacs.

The news comes from Thane, Mumbai where a housewife was robbed and physically abused by two robbers. The incident took place on May 10, 2015; the time was around 6:00pm when two persons entered the house making the excuse of being thirsty and asked for drinking water. After entering the house, they locked it from inside, started beating the housewife, blocked her mouth with pieces of cotton, undressed her blouse and saree, exploited her and took away Rs.10 lacs from the house.

As said by D M Katake, Senior Inspector of MFC Police Station, the victim has also been warned of getting killed if she discloses the incident to anyone.

Police has got success in identifying one culprit who is known as Siddeshwar Kumar and lives near the victim’s house. Additionally, police is making all the efforts required to catch the culprits.

A case is filed against both of them under Section 354, Section 506(2) and Section 394.

What is your opinion about this whole matter? Share your views in your comments!

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Udaipur: Big Boss 5 contestant Pooja Mishra on Wednesday filed molestation charges against unidentified people in Udaipur, over 400 kms from here, police said.

Mishra, in her complaint, has alleged that she was offered a drink laced with some drugs because of which she fell into a deep sleep. When she woke up in the morning she felt that she had been molested while she was unconscious.

Mishra is in Udaipur in connection with a shoot for a calendar and was staying at a five-star hotel.

“After having dinner at the hotel, I was offered a drink. After drinking it I returned to my room where and went into a deep sleep. When I got up in the morning I felt that I was molested and sexually assaulted,” she said in her complaint filed on Wednesday.

“We have registered a case under sections 354 and 379 of the IPC and have conducted medical examination of her. The report is likely to come by tomorrow,” a police official told IANS on phone.

Section 354 relates to assault or criminal force to woman with intent to outrage her modesty while section 379 deals with punishment for theft.

Officials said her complaint also accused some actors from the Hindi film industry and established businessman of hatching conspiracies against her for the last 10 years.

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Dear Mr. M L Sharma

I am a 24 year old girl working in Bangalore. I work in an industry that has very tedious schedules and erratic timelines. I work for at least 10 hours a day and I love my family back home. If I don’t live up to my job and be pretty damn good at it, I will not be able to feed people whose lives are dependent on me. When you were 21, did you have bills to pay? Mouths to feed? Well, I did. And I could only do it because the job, that I have. I say it every day and I say it again today, I love my job.

I have spent 5 days back to back in office wearing the same underwear. I have stayed outside at venue set ups all through the night, be it in a mainstream city, The Rann of Kachchh, or a far off interior village in Rajasthan or even in the gorgeous Dal Lake. The people I have worked with have been my Knights in shining armour. They have comforted me, bought sanitary napkins for me, offered their jackets to me in the extreme cold and also given me the confidence to wear shorts on occasions where it makes my work easy.

 

 

I hope you honestly believe me when I say that I am a bad girl. I live alone away from home. I wear shorts. I occasionally enjoy a sip of beer and love watching late night movies and going on long drives. I remember, as a kid, my dad used to only get evenings to spend time with us. And he used to make us do the most of it. I go out to hang out with my friends, I go on random trips to Goa, I love movies. I support the LGBT community. I occasionally abuse. I wear short dresses and low neck tops. I do all of that. I also go out on dates with people who are not my family.

I am a bad girl. I honestly am.

But you don’t know how attached I am to my family. You don’t know how much I cherish and value my friends. You don’t know how religious I am. You don’t know how I envision my life 10 years from now. You don’t know if I have ever been harassed or abused or hurt. You don’t know how many nights I have cried myself to sleep missing the warmth of my mom or the sternness of my father’s voice. You don’t know that I adore Ganesh Chaturthi, more than Durga Pooja. You don’t know that being a Bengali, I fast for 2 months and keep traditions and rituals alive in little ways. You haven’t met my adopted pet dog. You don’t know that I have paid for both my grandmother’s surgery when I was 23 years old. You have no idea what little things I do to contribute my bit to helping the society.

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You don’t know a thing about me. And yet, you have stereo typed me as a Bad Girl.

Fine. I accept it.

But here’s the actual reason why I am writing this letter to you.

In the documentary , you have said that a girl is like a flower, and all men are supposed to protect that flower. I have to hand this to you, that you couldn’t have been more right. I have always been protected. By my family, by my colleagues, by my friends, by random people who I even go on dates with. I have had such awesome male figures in my life in terms of my bosses, my boyfriend and my best friend that I have actually become a stronger, confident and independent person so as to be able to make life changing decisions for myself and my family. My mother has silently always taught me to stand up on my own and voice my mind out. My father, has taught me to be responsible towards people who matter. I am blessed to have such wonderful protectors who have always put my needs and wants in the front compared to their own convenience and desires.

But that’s not fair, is it , Sir? Jyoti was a bad girl. And she was punished to be taught a lesson, wasn’t she? So she was penalized and raped and killed.

I should be punished too. I should be raped too.

Also, the man with her who tried to protect her was hurt. Why? Wasn’t he protecting the girl? Didn’t you say this is in fact a man’s responsibility? Then why was he hurt? Why did the destroyers killed the protector?

Anyway, I don’t want to talk about all that, because you have garnered enough of hatred for yourself, just by talking your heart out. Maybe , unlike my parents, no one taught you what voicing your opinion, really means. Maybe if you worked in a call centre, you would learn what empathy, what courtesy is and most importantly, what compassion is.

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Nevertheless, I’ll get straight to the point. The idea of this letter was not me wasting your 2 minutes of your really valuable time. I am a bad girl. A very bad girl. The Indian Constitution has given you an authority to be a lawyer, and I hence, I take this offense seriously, the accusation that you put on Jyoti, Me and the rest of 80% of the Indian Female Population.

Have you finalized on a punishment yet? For us, for all of us? Like you justified Jyoti’s rape ? Should I wait for these rapists to do a national tour and rape all of us one by one? Can you imagine, maybe after the All India Rape Punishment Tour, maybe you can make a tomb for these rapists. And frame all the removed intestines and hang it there. Maybe, next time even cut the vaginas from their bodies, so that they never enjoy sex or pleasure or love, as a form of punishment. Maybe you can cut off our breasts and eyes and everything that a man finds beautiful about a girl, which you term as sexually provocative.

Let me know when and where in Bangalore I should wait to bear my punishment. Also, should I wear a burkha during the rape or be in a bikini? It will eliminate the unnecessary undressing times. Is there an age group that deserves the punishment or is it open to all females? Is my 17 year old cousin, who has just entered college and who just had her first kiss also categorized as a bad girl? Please do let me know when to be there, so that she can accept her punishment, too.

There are many things I have seen in life – In reality and through literature and through social media and through films and through documentaries. But I have never ever seen or read or thought about the existence of someone like you. Someone who is worth so much more, who is capable of saving lives and delivering justice. Someone, who is a father, a brother, an uncle, a husband, a son. You amuse me.

Since, you know so much about me now, I want to know something about you?

Do you have a daughter? Does she go to school? Does she tell you “I love you, papa, and everyday?” Do you read stories to her? Do you teach her about Cinderella? Have you made her read the Mahabharata and explained about Kunti or Draupadi? How is your mom? Is she in the kitchen all day, picking up after all the dirt that you have left behind? Have you ever hugged her, or fallen asleep in her lap? Have you ever heard how her day went? Have you ever asked her how hard her labour pain was? Do you have a sister? Do you celebrate bhai dooj and raksha bandhan with her? Do you tease her and protect her? What about your wife? Does she always wear sindoor and mangal sutra? Do you take her out shopping? Do you buy her flowers? Does she still let you make love to her, every night without hating you?

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How do you sleep at night?

Answer these few questions for me.

Then, you can punish me.
Then, you can rape me.
Then you can take my intestines out and play catch with it.

I wait to be raped. I wait to be punished. I wait to be killed. I wait to be answered.

Regards,
Moumita Pal

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India’s capital city bans Uber following sexual assault. So Uber is no longer allowed to operate in New Delhi, India’s capital city, after a woman was allegedly raped by one of its drivers. In an interview with India’s Economic Times, local transport chief Satis Mathur says that the company misled customers by using vehicles with the wrong permits and has never applied for permission to operate in the city. Acommon complaint about the ride-sharing service is that it neglects safety-and-background-checks for its drivers. That appears to be the case here, since the alleged offender was working while out on bail for sexually assaulting a woman in a cab he was driving in 2011. In a statement, Uber CEO Travis Kalnick says that the company will do everything to support the victim and “bring this perpetrator to justice.”

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