Be YouNick an Youtube Channel , came up with a funny sketch of the incident with a very strong message to people .
We as a society love to judge anything without being capable of doing so.
Eve Teasing
Full Story and Aspects of Jasleen-Sarvjeet Case: Tanya Bahl
To every judgmental Indian following the Jasleen Kaur- Sarvjeet Singh case.
Heard Jasleen kaur ? Now Hear the words of Sarvjeet Singh - Other Side of Story
You must have read -> This Guy Passed Very Cheap Comment At A Girl, And Then Threatened To Harm If She Complains
Now Read the other side of story from so called eve teaser Sarvjeet Singh
Words of Jasleen kaur
This man (misnomer) made obscene comments on me today at around 8 pm near Aggarwal, Tilak Nagar. He was on a silver Royal Enfield, vehicle number - DL 4S CE 3623. When I told him that im clicking his picture and i’m going to file a complaint against him, he responded by posing for the picture and said- “Jo kar sakti hai kar le. Complaint karke dikha, fir dekhiyo kya karta hun main”.
But there was something that is disturbing me much more than his obscene remarks- the fact that it was a red traffic signal and 20 other people heard what he was telling me. Yes, no one minded. No one intervened. No one stood up for me. I decided to stand up for myself and lodged a complaint in Tilak Nagar police station with his photo and vehicle number.
Share his picture and vehicle number as much as you can to pin this creep. (only if you care).
Today he had the audacity to say these things to me, tomorrow he will have the audacity to move one step ahead and do it.
PS- I could’ve written here exactly what he said in his comments, but i don’t want FB to remove my post.
From this perspective, the comment of accused named Sarvjeet Singh deserves to be mentioned which can give this case a new turn
Transcript of above image:-
“Hello …..jiski baat ye ladki jiska naam jasleen kar rahi h wo main hoon…ek side se baat sunke sab apni advise de dete hai…per ye kaise hua kyu hua koi janna nhi chhata. Mai red light pe khada tha near aggarwal sweet, tilak nagar. Ms. Jasleen ne mujhe or bakio ko rukne ka ishara kia…den i said ki mujhe left side jana h iske liye mujhe rukne ki kya zarurat..humne konsi red light jump krni hai…den i said to her ki apko jana to aap chale jao…bass itni si hi baat hui..isne meri n bike ki pic click krli den kehti mai btati hu tujhe jab tere ghr police ayegi tab pata chalega..kal mai jaunga thane…baat clear btane…i knw grls k sath kaafi chhed chhad hoti h….but iska means ye nhi ki jo baat na hui ho uska bhi issue bana dia jaye….em nt requestng u ki ye post remove kro…share kro jitna kr skte ho kro..but tab jab maine apko koi bad word ya kuch bhi glt kaha ho to….agar maine battmizi ki hai to sabne suna hoga…kisi ne kuch kyu ni kaha…mai bhi normale person hu…kahi ka don ya gunda nahi jo mujhse log darenge..”
We also can’t ignore the fact of her working for NDTV and AAP, which is an aspect worth considering in this matter.
So the truth still remains mystery , what do you think ? whom to believe a Girl or Boy
This Guy Passed Very Cheap Comment At A Girl, And Then Threatened To Harm If She Complains
When I lived in Delhi, every evening that I didn’t pick my mother’s phone she would get paranoid. She would pray to all her Gods and wish for my safety. And why wouldn’t she? Eve-teasing is common not just in Delhi but in most of India. And it remains so because more often than not, we decide to ignore and ‘let it be.’
Ever wondered why most girls don’t react to eve-teasing and choose to ignore? Because the possibility of what will follow is scarier than being eve-teased. A similar incident has occurred recently when a resident of Delhi, Jasleen Kaur, was walking on the street in Tilak Nagar and a roadside Romeo passed a lewd comment at her.
When she responded by clicking his picture and telling him that she will file a complaint, not only did he smirk, he also threatened her that if she files a complaint, he won’t let her live in peace. Around 20 other people who were standing on the signal, calmly ignored what happened. In shock, Jasleen filed the complaint in the Tilak Nagar police station and according to the Head Constable prompt action is being taken on her complaint.
When we spoke to the police we were told that they are trying to find the culprit with the bike number and picture submitted by Jasleen and are planning to take an action against him.
Here’s the incident in Jasleen’s words:
This man (misnomer) made obscene comments on me today at around 8 pm near Aggarwal, Tilak Nagar. He was on a silver…
Posted by Jasleen Kaur on Sunday, August 23, 2015
If you come across this man, please call the police and bring it to their attention.
If such an incident happens with you or around you, please don’t ignore it or be a dumb spectator, unless we react it is not going to stop.
Dear Jasleen, you are a brave girl, stay safe.
Two Guys Were Harassing A Girl On Bus Stop . You will Love too See what happened next
This video is based on true incident and after watching it, even you will not deny the fact that these kind of incidents keep happening every second day. This incident happened last year on Rakhi. Girl was waiting for a bus on busstop and suddenly two boys started teasing her. Obviously girl started feeling awkward and as a result another guy standing nearby helped her. Watch the video to know more.
This is the most hard hitting video that will open your eyes.
Must share this video with others to stop eve teasing. Together we can bring the change. I have done my bit by sharing this video with you, now it’s your turn to share it with others.
Army Jawan Beaten to Death For Rescuing Teen From Eve Teasers
MEERUT: A 35-year-old army jawan, who tried to rescue a girl from eve teasers, was beaten to death by aides of one of them.
On Thursday, Vedmitra Chaudhury, a Lance Naik in 416 Engineering Brigade, had gone to get milk from a booth on Rohta Road in Hardevnagar where he saw some youths teasing the daughter of the booth owner.
The jawan came to the girl’s rescue and even beat up one of the eve-teasers -Akash Saini, police said.
Enraged, Akash called his friends, who arrived at the spot armed with sticks. They then assaulted Chaudhury, leaving him seriously injured.
The jawan, who was staying at Gopal Vihar with his wife and children, was admitted to Army Hospital where he succumbed to his injuries last night, police said.
SSP Dinesh Chandra Dubey said, besides Akash, two others, Sanju and Ritesh, have been arrested and the search was on to nab other accused.
Talking about the incident, Sub-Area Colonel Rajiv Kumar said, Chaudhury fulfilled the duty of an Indian citizen and protected a girl’s honour. He will be remembered as martyr.
Eve Teasing and Some of its Shocking Incidents
Sexual harassment by strangers is a notoriously difficult crime to prove!
Men’s elbows thrust out to brush against you, someone stands to close behind you, and a variety of comments address you if your dressing includes a skirt, or a short dress. These are some common evils of eve teasing. A thorough look at the newspaper, daily shows, routine life, and organizational settings depicts various crimes being committed against women. Eve teasing is one of the major issues arising in the youth. One of the reasons why eve teasing is so prominent is due to the structure of our Indian society which promotes male domination. Male domination is not a myth; it still exists in our societies. Even though women achieved their right to vote, their opinions don’t hold a very strong position in comparison to the males. Eve teasing is a complex problem, and requires a tremendous amount of attention.
There are many incidents that occur in our day to day lives. I still remember the day; I learnt that even being in a group cannot protect an individual from the evils of eve-teasing. We live in a world where it is hard to walk down a road with some friends without being harassed. I remember the embarrassment, the fear, the anger, the disgust my friend felt on being eve teased by two bikers on her way to the market. She said, they had been stalking her from the moment she left her place. He tried to strike a conversation with one of the common questions, “kya haal hai”? It was easy to ignore at first, but then in the eagerness to show anger, she replied with a smarter answer supposedly, and said, “jo teri behn ka hai”, and started to walk away. Before she could take any step forward, she felt a voice that echoed in her ears and said, “meri behn toh pregnant hai”!
Every step for the victim becomes a step away from bravery and a step towards fear, and surprise when encountered by inappropriate touching which was just a casual walk for her. Such an incident increases the levels of nervousness, nausea, and a feeling that someone owns you. The victim suffers a loss of self-esteem, faith, and dignity. People, friends, family, and relatives say “pay attention to the surroundings”, but does that mean I cannot even breathe without paying attention?
We Indians have a habit of using proverbs for every situation. This habit encourages us with the saying, “tumhare ghar mein maa, behn nahin hai”? But we never visualize the effects of such sayings until we don’t tend to encounter such incidents that are full of disgust. Males have become so heartless that whether it is the system, the public, their families, nothing can prevent their inappropriate actions towards females.
Gender discrimination is hampering the growth of our society. Females are said to be equal, but are never treated equal due to the centrally rooted values in our traditions. Past revolutions in the country have contributed to the individuality of women in the world. It is said to be bad if a female leaves her house without being accompanied by her brother or father, but with the improvement in education and female work aura it has become essential for the women to become independent in order to maintain her current status and rights. Even today females are treated as their property by many males in our society.
A large percentage of Indian women have faced or are facing this menace. Whether it is a public transport system, public places, shopping malls, or multiplexes, women find themselves vulnerable to the threat of eve teasing everywhere. It can be in the form of using inappropriate signs, touching without consent, passing awful sexual comments, or stalking. Victims feel they are surrounded by evil eyes, and are in the hands of predators. According to some feminist writers this behaviour is considered a kind of “little rape”.
Some incidents prove to be shocking, but some leave a mark that haunts our personal identity. They leave heavy amount of guilt and hatred towards oneself. Victims deal with the feeling of humiliation and helplessness. With the increase in the violent crimes against women there are many questions which surround a victim. Why me? What is my identity? Will women forever remain target and victims of eve teasing? Are the major questions that remain in the victim’s mind.
Sorry, You Are A Coward If You Do This To Any Woman
It’s time to be Man and stand up for the cause of Women safety. What we need as a society is to awaken our conscience and act on the moral call of our righteous sense of right and wrong.
How weird it is that Human beings are the only species who claim to have a conscience but act like they don`t have one.
Guy Molested me in front of Guards and People
This Image is For Representation Purpose Only
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I walked steadily, holding a few things in my hands: my notebook, phone and wallet. It was a habitual path, one I had taken so many times since childhood that I knew when the trees had been trimmed and could tell when the flowers hanging out of the houses would bloom.
Two minutes away from my home, one calm Sunday morning, I felt him.
It hit me from behind, harder than a ton of bricks. A hand grabbed my backside, hard, and squeezed. The bike slowed down and he was right next to me, his helmet clad head touching the side of my cheek. His hands didn’t leave me, they were already moving, to pull me closer or to push me on the ground, I couldn’t tell. Terror shot through me as I screamed.
“Bastard!”
I turned and hit him as hard as I could, his back, his arm, whatever inch I could see on the light blue shirt he wore.
As I struck him, our eyes met.
Nothing had ever terrified me more than the unapologetic gaze of that man.
He slowly drew his hands back and began to steer his motorcycle away, speeding up. I tried running a few steps before my legs failed me and he turned the corner and disappeared.
I was left on the road, notebook, wallet and phone in hand, thoroughly groped, standing right in front of four or five security guards wearing uniforms. They looked at me with mild interest.
I lost it at the guards. “Dekhte hi rehna!” I couldn’t recognize my own voice. “Kabhi kuch mat karna! Bas dekhna! Ye hota rahega! Tum dekhte hi rehna!” They behaved as though I didn’t exist. Some looked at their feet and for the rest the air around them must have been exceptionally interesting that day, because it drew their attention better than a screaming, sobbing girl right in front of them. “Uniform kis liye pehente ho?”
I was then struck by the awareness of being completely alone. I walked home, shaking, tears running down my cheeks, clutching my things to my chest.
That two minute walk felt like a lifetime.
I couldn’t even note his bike number. In that moment all I had seen was red, and the blue of the shirt he wore.
I won’t forget the guards’ reaction, rather the lack of it. I had been screaming at the top of my voice throughout the incident. They had watched.
It struck me how the guard of my own building had been so quick to report to the landlady when I had taken a male friend upstairs. Were they all like that? Eager to interfere in consensual relationships and mere detached observers when a woman was being touched against her will?
I’m aware that my experience is not even a morsel of the kind of horror, rape, abuse that women face everyday. Should I be relieved that this is the worst I’ve been through in my 19 years of living in Delhi?
This is my message to all women living in the capital: You are alone. Sooner or later, in broad daylight or one dreary night, in a good neighborhood or a shady lane, someone will try.
They’ll make you wish you hadn’t worn what you did. They’ll make you wish your chest wasn’t as prominent or your legs not as long. They’ll make you look at your feet and slouch as you walk past them. They’ll try to feel you up for cheap thrills, they will slap your breasts as they speed past in a car, they will whistle and pass sexually offensive comments at you. . . What will you do?
Be prepared to face it alone, because when it happens, you will be.
(The incident occurred in Gulmohar Park, a colony in South Delhi.)
Source - University Express
A letter to an Eve-Teaser : Tanya Bahl
“I held your wrist, twisted your arm and landed a bang on your face. Teri himmat kaise hui chune ki? (How dare you touch me?)
‘Beep Beep Beep……Wake up wake up wake up ……. It’s a brand new Day!
6:15 a.m. it was. I was already late but did not repent it. Coz the thing I could not do in broad day light I had finally done in my dream, or rather nightmare I should say. You know what; you have started to haunt me even in my sleep!
Do you know when it was first when I realized that I am no longer a small baby but now have been characterized (as every other girl) in an ostensibly ‘weaker’ class of society in this male chauvinistic world? It was not when I hit puberty. But it was when I was followed by one of you my way back to home from school. Your lewd stare, the sly whistle, the lingering look, cheap gestures, all shattered me in a jiffy.
Unable to track you, I was asked by elders to let the bygone be bygone. But you had made a lifelong impression on my mind. Finally I knew now; I had grown up!
Kudos to you!
No one can deny that your such activities are an indispensable part of every girl’s being. You are everywhere, buses, shopping arcades, restaurants, railway booking counters, cinema halls, bus stops, and every other conceivable place.
In a crowded place, one of you bumps into us unwarranted and then your seemingly casual touch! You rubberneck me as if some asset at display. Even if I try to confront you some time, you are already ready with your-“Maine kya kiya? (What have I done?)” as guiltless as an innocent child unsullied by any kind of sin.
It is really commendable each time you seemingly ‘unintentionally’ brush your arm against my back or thigh in a bus or train and still you have a hell lot guts to stare straight into my eyes when I look at you in disgust and still have that ‘Happy-Go-Lucky’ attitude. Really, Hats off!
You well-timed clap, your seemingly casual touch, your lingering look at vulnerable times, the humming of a suggestive song, passing down the crude and sarcastic comments, bikes flying close with hands stretched to grope us! You must have had to practice pretty hard to masters these skills. Tough job of yours!
There surely must be some thrill in ripping behind us in every possible hazardous manner. May be you try to flaunt your macho who can accost or rather terrify, anyone.
You know what; all thanks to you that my activities and clothes are under constant scrutiny any my late nights are curbed.
It kills me a little inside each time a have to re-think over a dress before entering a public place. Even in a decent ‘salwaar- kameez’, why do I appear Lady Godiva to you and so you become the voyeuristic Peeping Tom!
I am sure one day you would agnize the disgust you cause to me and that day would be the one when your daughter would come up to you and say-“ Daddy! I don’t feel safe!”
Yours seemingly leisurely object,
A Regular girl.
