Badlega India
Feeling symapthetic and sad while listening to a person’s ordeal is a way of putting to that horrifying experience that person went through. Although that sense of emotion and being despondent fades away fast until it is realised by oneself of how the trauma and pain travelled and teared an individual’s mind,heart and the spirit of unravelling more to the furious attrocities of life.People generally drift away with their emotions and never understood the stigma of what made that emotion derived that vary moment.
Something just popped out in my mind, while i was surfing and found out a video of audition of roadies x4 , in which a women named Nasreen explained her survival of a acid attack in which she undergo through such trauma that even the strongest of people give up, one thing that inspired me about her is that she exclaimed through her entry that she is always happy, a person who went through such attrocities of life learns to be happy ,what a perfect soul of diamond and sturdy mindset she must be possesing. She further added to her ordeal that “she feels good when someone listens to her part of story and understands her”. There is something humans have lost that was the soul reason of our mere existence and that is Understanding.
Yes, we men at some point of time would like to dominate our frustration and our losses at our beloved or significant other and state themselves as the sole reason for our problems,when sometimes they don’t even have single connection to it. We fight,abuse,physically harm them with such furiousness that it questions their judgement of being with ourselves and after supporting and being with at such hard times, he is treating me in an such an inappropriate manner.To all Men’s, this is never a way to treat someone either way to a female ever. Yes, we pour our stuff to our loved ones,but there should be a line drawn which we should never cross and we never create a havoc in the life of our significant other and break them forever.
Naseer is one of those examples of powerful women which will provide a inspiration,a role model to follow and a strong figure to look upon to. Every relationship has a boundary, don’t cross it.Neither men nor women can be dominant to each other and expect better outcomes,whereas both can meet halfway and seek fruitful results.
I wish that these acid attacks never happen to any men or women ever. Life is precious not only yours but everyone’s.
